Finding Your Voice: The Journey to Becoming a Writer
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Chapter 1: The Writer's Path
Authentic art emerges from pursuing what inspires you, trusting that a community of like-minded individuals will eventually discover your work.
I can sense it—I’m close. Years of ups and downs, periods of darkness, and bursts of creativity have led me here. I know I can write; I’m confident in my unique voice. I have insights that I believe resonate with others, articulated in a way they appreciate. Yet, I still seek the broader audience necessary for success. I’m on the brink.
Like many writers, my voice has matured over time, and I can easily trace its evolution. It’s akin to observing the growth of my grandchildren. At first glance, it’s hard to predict their future selves, but looking back reveals the clear signs of who they are becoming.
But how do we locate that audience that will facilitate our success?
Section 1.1: The Illusion of Quick Success
Whenever there's a large group of individuals striving for success—be it in writing, acting, music, or art—an entire industry seems to emerge, promising quick solutions. They offer seven easy steps to success, encouraging subscriptions to newsletters, podcasts, and exclusive video series, all claiming to lead you to fame.
Here’s the reality:
There’s no shortcut to succeed in competitive fields. If you were hoping for an easy path, allow me to save you time, money, and frustration: it doesn’t exist. If that’s what you were looking for, it might be best to stop reading now.
The truth can be hard to accept, but it’s essential. Success will demand more effort and time than you can imagine. If you dwell on it too much, you might not even start. However, there’s a silver lining: many creative individuals tend to be somewhat deluded.
Section 1.2: Comedians as Fellow Travelers
I've often viewed stand-up comedians as kindred spirits to writers, both enduring struggles for recognition and fame. They persist in obscurity, defying all odds, often for years.
While there’s no specific timeline for mastering stand-up, seasoned comedians agree that it typically takes 7–10 years of dedication to hone their craft, followed by however long it takes to achieve that breakthrough moment. Even those who find early success, like Eddie Murphy and Dave Chappelle, began their journeys as teenagers.
Jim Gaffigan, a renowned comic, has expressed disbelief at how he didn’t quit during his early years. He recounts, “At one point, any rational person would say, ‘You need to stop. This isn’t working.’”
Jerry Seinfeld humorously compared being a comedian to being a criminal: “No matter what people say, you’re probably going to keep at it.”
Subsection 1.2.1: The Development of a Skill
David Sedaris, the humorist, famously wrote daily for fifteen years before anyone acknowledged his work. Eventually, a chance reading at a party led to a series of opportunities, culminating in a publishing deal. His story illustrates the long, often unseen journey before success appears.
This resonated with me; I’ve been writing since childhood, but only in the past 15–20 years have I taken it seriously. I've spent the last five to seven years committed to the craft.
Writing is a skill that can be cultivated by those with innate talent. However, raw talent alone isn’t enough; it requires hard work to shine.
Chapter 2: The Call to Write
In his iconic poem, Charles Bukowski wrote, “If it doesn’t come bursting out of you in spite of everything, don’t do it.” He emphasizes that true artistic expression must stem from deep within, igniting a fire in your soul.
There are two kinds of people who read this. One group may feel disheartened, doubting their talent or dedication to the craft. They might quit, even if they possess the gift. The other group believes they are writers but might secretly think they can achieve success without the hard work. They may hold onto a delusion of exceptionalism.
The truth is, both groups will face challenges. The hard work cannot be avoided, and even the most talented individuals will encounter struggles.
Section 2.1: The Allure of Success
It’s often said that those with talent, perseverance, and a solid work ethic rarely fail to find success. If you possess the gift and are willing to put in the effort, you will attract an audience.
However, this shouldn’t be your ultimate goal. External validation won’t sustain you; it’s merely a fleeting aspect of the dream. The most successful artists are often still chasing something, long after achieving commercial recognition.
Ironically, many find success after they no longer prioritize it. The journey becomes the focus, and the finish line turns out to be an illusion.
If you don’t enjoy the writing process, you’ll never reach the finish line. Conversely, if you fall in love with the act of writing, accolades will become secondary. It’s in this moment of passion that recognition may unexpectedly arrive.
This first video, "So You Wanna Be A Writer" by Charles Bukowski, captures the essence of pursuing your craft wholeheartedly, urging potential writers to dig deep within themselves.
The second video, "So, you want to be a writer?" further explores the challenges and joys of the writing journey, resonating with aspiring authors.
My Race Is Not Yet Run
I haven’t achieved commercial success yet; I remain an unknown writer with dreams of grandeur. While I yearn for recognition, I understand that there must be more to my journey.
I’ve discovered a love for writing itself, not just the illusion of being a writer. This realization has transformed my perspective. I write because it brings me joy.
For now, I have an appointment with the dentist, and perhaps I’ll write about that experience too.
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