Chapter 1: The Power of Appreciation

“Gratitude has the power to uplift a day and can even alter a life. All it takes is your willingness to express it.” — Margaret Cousins

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As I approach one of the most significant milestones in my life, I am reminded of how far one can journey when passion and purpose are aligned.

It is with humility that I reflect on the immense struggles I endured, but ultimately, I experienced a profound awakening thanks to divine intervention.

Without the generosity of many who found me in my lowest moments and offered their hands to lift me up, I truly wouldn’t be here today.

Those familiar with my story know of my battle with alcoholism, which left me wandering as a homeless individual for five years.

Breaking free from my past behaviors was no easy feat, but my desire for a brighter future propelled me to discover the path to sobriety and persist through it.

Each small daily step set me on a course that transformed my thoughts, reshaping my habits and, in turn, my actions.

The benefits of this journey have been remarkable. What I have accomplished has far exceeded my initial expectations, allowing me to construct a new life.

My gratitude for life has intensified, as has my appreciation for the kindness of others.

Today, I celebrate the escape from mediocrity, formally embracing a life of freedom and achievement.

This success isn't merely financial; it embodies a deeper sense of appreciation and a commitment to living a fulfilling life, free from the chains of my former destructive desires. Today, I joyfully share my engagement announcement.

In a remarkable turnaround, I have transformed from a person filled with despair into one thriving in success.

Photo credit: “Carlos Jeronimo.”

Inspired by Tim Denning, whose influence on my writing journey has been significant, I wish to emphasize that there is nothing unattainable when one is determined.

Do not bear guilt for falling into hardship due to past irresponsibility. As Ayodeji Awosika wisely states, many of our circumstances stem from our upbringing and the habits we develop along the way.

What truly matters is acknowledging your flaws or harmful behaviors and taking the necessary steps to realign your life as a skilled architect would.

Do not remain oblivious, indulging in fleeting pleasures; ultimately, there will be a cost to bear—potentially on your physical and mental well-being.

I extend my gratitude to everyone who has supported me through their encouraging messages. My greatest reward has been the opportunity to guide others away from the mistakes I once made.

To conclude, I share an insightful quote from James Clear, author of "Atomic Habits":

“For those who expect everything, there are many curses. For those who appreciate everything, there are many blessings.” –@JamesClear

Thank you for taking the time to read my reflections.

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Chapter 2: Embracing Change

In the first video, "Julia Cole & Alexandra Kay - Best Worst Ex (Official Lyric Video)," we delve into themes of love and reflection on past relationships, emphasizing the lessons learned through appreciation.

The second video, "Francis Ngannou | Hotboxin' with Mike Tyson," features inspiring discussions on resilience and determination, aligning perfectly with the message of overcoming adversity.