Chapter 1: Introducing a New Habit

It’s time to incorporate a transformative habit into your life—one that will guide you through challenges and help you thrive.

For a long time, I found myself fixated on my shortcomings, allowing my insecurities to dominate my thoughts. It took a challenging financial situation for me to realize that I was hindering my own courage to overcome these obstacles. While it’s important to acknowledge our vulnerabilities, there’s a crucial difference between recognizing them and letting them define who we are.

When we dwell on our perceived inadequacies, we inadvertently set ourselves up for defeat and stagnation. The same applies to acknowledging uncertainty in our lives. If we focus solely on our limitations, we might never find the courage to venture beyond our comfort zones.

Instead, I encourage you to shift your mindset. One effective method is to add the word "yet" to your thoughts. For example: - "I can’t drive a car yet." - "I don’t know how to do this yet."

This simple addition serves as a reminder that your limitations are not permanent; they are merely challenges to navigate as you uncover your potential.

Remind yourself that you are not defined by your limitations, but by how you respond to them. Don’t allow your flaws and fears to hold you back. Challenge every limiting thought with a "yet."

Uncertainty can often compel us to explore our hidden strengths. Although it can feel overwhelming at times, it also presents an opportunity for growth. Think of it this way: self-doubt can be seen as life’s gentle nudge, inviting you to delve deeper into yourself and your circumstances.

I have faced moments of uncertainty, just as you likely have. It’s during these times that uncertainty reveals our true selves. Instead of panicking, I strive to view these moments as integral parts of my life’s adventurous journey. I choose to see discomfort not as a barrier but as an opportunity to learn more about my identity and resilience.

I prefer to cultivate trust in my ability to navigate whatever life throws my way, rather than relying on someone else to figure it out for me. Embracing these challenges enables me to discover my true strengths.

Ultimately, uncertainty should not lead to stagnation; instead, it offers a pathway to growth and self-discovery. Embrace the opportunity to surprise yourself with your potential and the outcomes that follow.

To paraphrase a sentiment from my book: Do not fear your self-doubt. While it may quicken your heartbeat and provoke insecurity, remember that self-doubt is not meant to paralyze you. It is a challenge to deepen your understanding of your current situation, to inspire personal growth, and to foster unconditional self-love as you pursue your dreams.

If you aspire to become mentally stronger, live intentionally, and embrace your true self unapologetically, consider downloading my free journal, “Who am I?” It’s available for free when you subscribe to my Substack newsletter: Luminary Letters.

Chapter 2: The Power of Habit and Systems

In this video, discover how establishing systems rather than merely setting goals can transform your life. By focusing on habits, you can create sustainable change that propels you forward.

Join Jordan Peterson as he discusses forming new habits and taking charge of your life. This motivational talk emphasizes the importance of self-discipline and personal growth.